Sarah-Clare (daughter), and I wear bracelets that represent our support for the “Invisible Children” in the war-torn country of Uganda (small donation). Getting them was her idea. I’m not even sure exactly where she first heard about the children but before I knew it she had researched the supporting organization, formulated a plan to support the relief efforts and figured out how to get the word out around here.
Through this little bracelet, she has opened my eyes to injustice in the world….and shown me I can learn a lot from my passionate 15 year old daughter.
Here are just a few things I have learned watching her grow up:
- She is passionate! My daughter throws herself wholeheartedly into projects that she cares about! No cynicism, pessimism or other negative “isms”. Whether it is ballet or injustice in a country thousands of miles away, she brings enthusiasm to it. I need to be more passionate about the things that God is passionate about!
- She is sensitive to injustice – When I pray for my pastor and those in leadership I typically pray that they have a “thick skin and a heart like Jesus”. While she is working on the “thick skin” part, she has the “heart like Jesus” down pat! Job 5:15-16 I need to be sensitive to injustice!
- Her own sin really “bugs” her! – She has not learned to “harden her heart towards the things of God”. As I watch her grow up I see a young woman who is developing the ability to recognize when her heart is leaving the things of God. She is often quick to come back to Him. Hebrews 3:13 I need to weep over my own sin!
- She “listens to the sermon” – I know, I know….we ALL listen to the sermon right? BUT she REALLY LISTENS! This afternoon was a great example: Our pastor preached a message he called “En-Vision 2010”. In it he explained what he believes God is asking the church to do as to local missions, discipleship etc….. an absolutely great message. Afterwards, I was quickly on to the next thing…. a leadership meeting at noon and the all church fellowship tonight, outreach, and staff retreat at the end of the week. Not Sarah-Clare…late this afternoon she “plopped down” next to me on the sofa and explained what God had told her during the message. “Wow”, I thought, “He told me to worry about the leadership meeting, all church fellowship, blah, blah, blah”) James 1:22 She is a do-er! I need to be a do-er and not a hearer only!
- She does not “change the channel” – I have gotten pretty good about looking the other way when confronted with the homeless, disadvantaged or stricken. “I can’t help everyone” or “It is probably a scam”, I remind myself as I switch back to the ballgame. Sarah Clare, on the other hand, is willing to look at these things with eyes of genuine concern and desire to help. She is actually frustrated the she can’t help them all! I need to be frustrated more!
It turns out that I really need to be a lot more like my 15 year old daughter…
January 11, 2010 at 6:28 pm
She definitely is always attentive to the needs of others- anytime I’m around her in a group of girls, she’s always making sure to do the right thing. So proud of her! I can only imagine what you, her parents, feel like…